I'm going crazy

I have a really hard time being decisive...about anything.  You ask me where I want to eat dinner and I will stress until you give me options.  I will change my shirt three times in the morning and sometimes more...

I've become easily spooked lately by relationship determining situations.  I don't know how much of it is just my recent track record and I don't know how much of it is legitimate worries.  How do you know when concerns are deal breakers and how do you know when you are just being picky.  Am I to blame for my current single situation?  Or am I following real concerns?  What defines a real 'deal breaker'?

I have no clue.

The good news is that Rob Thomas, though kind of a strange man, writes great lyrics.

Someday
By Rob Thomas

You can go
you can start all over again
You can try to find a way to make another day go by 
You can hide
Hold all your feelings inside
You can try to carry on when all you wanna do is cry


And maybe someday we'll figure all this out
Try to put an end to all our doubt
Try to find a way to make things better now that
Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud
We'll be better off somehow, someday


Now we wait
And try to find another mistake
If you throw it all away then maybe you can change your mind
You can run
And when everything is over and done
You can shine a little light on everything around you
Man it's good to be someone


And maybe someday we'll figure all this out
Try to put an end to all our doubt
Try to find a way to make things better now that
Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud
We'll be better off somehow, someday


I don't wanna wait
I just wanna know
I just wanna hear you tell me so
Give it to me straight
Tell it to me slow


Cuz maybe someday we'll figure all this out
We'll put an end to all our doubt
Try to find a way to just to feel better now
Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud
We'll be better off somehow, someday


Cuz sometimes we don't really notice
Just how good it can get
So maybe we should start all over
Start all over, again


Cuz sometimes we don't really notice
Just how good it can get
So maybe we should start all over
Start all over, again